Montag, 28. März 2011

The beginning is always hard...

Friday
So i had big plans for my first active weekend as a single but there's a LOT to improve. First of all i need a wing to push me. On friday i was at my favourite Club in Berlin, called Icon. I LOVE good music and they fly artists in, like every week so that's an obvous choice isn't it?

There were a few HBs, but less than normal. I went in at about 2am(party doesn't start until then). Winners smile on and everything, a little bit of Peacocking going on, when a girl approached me(wtf?! thats a first...).
She was asking me about the cabinet key (?) i had on my chain(it's a key electrotechnicians use to open cabinets, it's pretty big so people start wondering, credit to a fella named Patrick who i stole this one from. He once was partying with a bathtub plug around his neck ;)...have to try that one too...)

So an HB approaches me, at first glance i would say HB 7,5 HSE-HD...she had a really nice body, was british and had a little bit of that goth style going on...bingo...

HB: What's that ?
Ceasar: A key...
HB: What for?
Ceasar: It's the key to my heart...(SORRY but i was so surprised i couldn't think of anything better!)
HB: Can i have it?
Ceasar: Of course not.
HB:Why not? (puppy eyes on and everything, so cute..)
Ceasar: You have to deserve it first. grinning...
HB: What do i have to do? beaming...

So i was like yeah...easy as pie...so we talked a bit about this and that...i befriended her AMOGs who were hovering above her...they all thought i was cool...i was anxious as hell because it's pretty new to me that a girl approaches me but anyways. SUDDENLY a guy walks into the group. She immediately focused on him.

She didn't introduce me to him so i told her it's rude not to introduce me to her friends. And she was like "That's my boyfriend", the guy had a "wtf?!" look on his face and i was like "...yeah...right..."
So she pulled him aside THROWING IOIs at him and he was just dodging them.
Later his friends told me that she's totally into him, but he has a girlfriend back home...that's why his mind is fighting...poor guy ^^. he was LOST with her hitting on him. I lost her.

Saturday
Nothing special, had training. after that i wanted to take a nap and woke up at 4am...FUCK!...

Sunday
So it was sunday, first i went to training. Do something for my body. After that i went to a park in Berlin called "Mauerpark". On sundays there is the Karaoke Bearpit, imagine an amphitheatre with approx. 2000 people in it and a guy with a karaoke soundsystem in the middle, everyone can come forward and sing. I enlisted immediately because i love to sing. When it was my turn... i came, i saw, i conquered, like usual, people cheering and stuff(Without bragging...i do CAN sing).
Some girl in the front row even threw a rose at me...NICE(That's a first).
And i told the crowd that i am looking for a girl to sing next week Jason Mraz and Colbie Caillat's "Lucky" with me. I went off stage. And sat down when this girl approaches me(again.. ^^) and she goes like " yeah i can sing that song", we introduced each other.

Andrea, 24 years old, from spain, HB 6, HSE LD

She told me she can sing it so i just pulled out my blackberry with the lyrics and told her to go ;)
She hesitated for a moment but then started...
THAT GIRL HAD A VOICE!!! Thank you Lord for this one...she sounded amazing...so when i joined we were singing in harmony like we knew each other for YEARs...we were both BEAMING...yeah so we talked a bit about music and stuff..and then wanted to go somewhere where it's warmer because the sun already set and it was getting cold. We took a look at the map and i chose a place called ACUD at "Rosenthaler Platz" it's a really nice cosy bar, and at that very bar i was the first time on stage. So i have history there.
We went there. it was awesome like it used to be. A band was playing. Really nice music she was into it, i could tell by her body language. We talked a lot about our life philosophies, we just connected"live for the moment" and stuff. But i hesitated to escalate...Then we got a bit silly with "body tricks" and stuff when she bent her thumb until it lied flat on her underarm. So i was like "wow" and she was like yeah i was born really flexible... (Fantasy of every guy...?)

So i smiled and told the girl: Don't tell me stuff like that! ;)
HB grinning: I can put my legs behind my head...
Me: ...lost for words...

THAT was the moment when i completely lost my frame...so we enjoyed the music..drank a bit but it was just chitchat from that moment on...When we were waiting on the bus i was like:
FUCK FUCK FUCK! DO something!!!

So i pulled out my mobile phone with the lyrics of the "Lucky" song. We sang it once again in complete harmony, she was beaming again from ear to ear, :)

we did a facebook-close, we'll see maybe we see each other again...That's about it...
I NEED A WING!
Guys comment below with an email adress or sumthin. ;)

Lessons learned:
If you peacock, PREPARE better!
Look better for IOI'S
Get a Wing to push you into sets
escalate, escalate, escalate....

That's it for now...
Ceasar

Mittwoch, 23. März 2011

Some Info about Me

OK So.Here'S a little Q&A about me

Who Are you ?
Hi I'm Ceasar. From now on that is gonna be my PUA Name, that's what i will use When i Pick Up Chicks. Why Ceasar you may ask? my third name is Caesarius so that's an obvious Choice.

Where are you from?
I am from Berlin, Germany i grew up here but my roots are in Poland.

Why are you doing this?
I recently dumped my fiancée. I've been with her for over 4 years. Didn't pick up a single chick during that time. It just didn't work out as planned. So yeah here i am single again.

Where did you learn about PickUp?
A friend of mine when i went to school gave me a book called "Lob  Des Sexismus" by "Lodovico Santana", you can compare it to as the german bible of pickup, like "The Game" by Neil Strauss which i've read too.
So i looked on the net for a "Berlin Lair" and i finally found it. I met the guys, they were really nice and I told them from the start that i'm interested in PickUp only to keep "my senses" sharp. Because IF i will be a single one day, i want to go ballistic. You never know when shit will be thrown into your path. So here I am, 2 years later, single. Ready to go.

What do you want do do?
I want to describe my journey from rAFC(Recovering Average Frustrated Chump) to PUA(Pick Up Artist) one step at a time. Including photos and other stuff so stay tuned. :)